‘If you’re alive, there’s a purpose for your life” Rick Warren
Have you ever sat and wondered what your life’s purpose is? A question I believe that everyone has asked themselves at some point in their lives. A question that tends to pop up whenever one is feeling a bit deflated, unmotivated or uninspired.
I have found that one’s purpose is not lost, so we cannot “find” it. Instead, we search for it, but not on the outside. It’s within us, but we need to pull back layer after layer until it reveals itself to us. Our passions and purpose work hand in hand, and it takes one to discover the other. However, sometimes we’re aware of what our passions are, we’re just not sure how that can become or be part of our life’s purpose.
Just knowing that you have to become uncomfortable, makes the task ahead seem daunting. We’re wired to associate with comfort and familiarity. We struggle to cope when we’re put into situations that are foreign to us. The first step to discovering our passions is to burst the bubble that we live in.
Our bubbles are our safety nets. It’s where everything is about “me”. It’s about “my” pleasures, “my” time, “my” comfort. It’s where we procrastinate because of our fear of failing. It’s where we avoid certain people because you cannot let them see that you still haven’t upgraded your car in 10 years. It’s where you never have time to invite friends over because your home is not quite as big as their’s. We’re so busy protecting ourselves from the way we’re perceived by others, that we forget that there is a whole world out there, that is perfectly capable of existing even if you were not in it.
Do What Makes You Happy
Love painting? Reading? Cooking?
Make time for the things you love to do. Somethings are easier to make time for than others. If its surfing you love and have a family to take care off, wake up earlier on the weekends to make time for it. Better still, get your family involved. When we do what we love, we automatically become more inspired. It is that inspiration that is needed to help discover what our purposes are. You might meet like minded people who will inspire you in doing more, getting better, or encourage you to use your talents to give back.
I have discovered that giving back is one of our biggest purposes in life. And when that’s themed with your passion, life automatically becomes more meaningful. Love to read, but can’t afford to make a living of it? Volunteer at an organisation where you can give some of your time teaching kids to read. Your dreary job will become more tolerable when you know that you’re giving back even if it’s in the smallest ways. Two such organisations is Help 2 Read and Shine Literacy
Life is a whole lot sweeter when you feel you have a purpose. It’s the journey that might seem long, but its worth every step of the way.